* chore: minor fixes for newer PyPys

* ci: fix issue with PyPy

* Use sysconfig in Python >= 3.10

Rely on sysconfig for installation paths for Python >= 3.10. distutils
has been deprecated and will be removed.

Fixes: pybind#3677

* Explicitly select the posix_prefix scheme for platinclude on Debian

Debian's default scheme is posix_local, for installing locally-built
packages to /usr/local/.  We want to find the Python headers in /usr/,
so search posix_prefix.

* Test out Python 3.11 migration

* Clean up a bit

* Remove todo

* Test workaround

* Fix potential bug uncovered in 3.11

* Try to fix it more

* last ditch fix

* Revert. Tp-traverse isn't the problem

* Test workaround

* Try this hack

* Revert MRO changes

* Use f_back properly

* Qualify auto

* Update include/pybind11/pybind11.h

* [pre-commit.ci] auto fixes from pre-commit.com hooks

for more information, see https://pre-commit.ci

* Simplify code slightly

* Ensure co_varnames decref if dict_getitem throws

* Eager decref f_code

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