chore: log pending resources for discovery

debug: log unfound resources

debug: crd install

debug: silenced error and resource list

chore: increase crd install timeout for ci/cd

Merge pull request kubernetes-sigs#551 from mengqiy/release-0.2

🏃 fast forward release-0.2 branch

🐛 surface controller options when using builder

Fixes: kubernetes-sigs#317

- Currently there is no way to override MaxConcurrentReconciles using builder
- Provide a method to override controller options
- Another approach was to provide MaxConcurrentReconciles itself, but it isnt future proof incase additional options are added

Merge pull request kubernetes-sigs#512 from kubernetes-sigs/master

🏃 ff release-0.2 branch to master HEAD

Merge pull request kubernetes-sigs#507 from kubernetes-sigs/master

🏃 ff release-0.2 to master

Merge pull request kubernetes-sigs#475 from kubernetes-sigs/master

👻 ff release-0.2 branch to master